About Coach Dee

“I am here to help you reclaim the parts of yourself you abandoned for love, safety, acceptance, or survival.”

Hi, I’m Dee — a trained sex, intimacy & relationship coach, a mother, a storyteller, a rebel-hearted woman, and someone who has walked through the fire of shame, trauma, silence, and self-doubt… and emerged softer, stronger, wiser, and more turned on by life.

My work is rooted in compassion, embodiment, sensual awakening, and the belief that pleasure is not a luxury —
it is medicine.

I guide individuals and couples through the tender, transformative work of reconnecting with their bodies, desires, and emotional truth.

Meet Dee — Your Intimacy Guide, Somatica Practitioner & Witness to Your Becoming Compassionate. Honest. Sensual. Transformative.
A safe space for you to return home to your body, your truth, and your desire.

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My philosophy

Connection starts in the Nervous System

Your body is not the enemy.
Your desire is not dangerous.
Your emotions are not “too much.”
Your shame is not permanent.

Intimacy is a language — and everyone can learn it.

I practice the Somatica Method, which combines:

  • Emotional attunement

  • Somatic embodiment

  • Erotic exploration

  • Attachment awareness

  • Nervous system work

  • Real-time relational intimacy

  • Trauma-informed safety

I won’t judge you.
I won’t rush you.
I won’t perform “professional distance.”
I will meet you where you are — fully, lovingly, and with the truth you deserve.

My coaching style is:
Warm & grounding
Courageous & deeply honest
Sensual & embodied
Transformative & empowering

Why I Do This Work

I do this work because I know what it feels like to:

  • hide parts of yourself to be loved

  • feel disconnected from your own body

  • suppress desire

  • carry shame that wasn’t yours

  • fear intimacy because it feels unsafe

  • crave connection but run from it

  • want more but not know how to ask

And I know what it feels like to come home to yourself again.

I believe that profound intimacy is possible — not just with a partner, but within you.

This work is personal.
This work is sacred.
This work is liberation.

Who My Work Is For

My coaching is for people who are ready to:

  • heal through emotional and sexual intimacy

  • heal pre/post divorce

  • reconnect with their sensual aliveness

  • explore desire without shame

  • build confidence in love, sex, and communication

  • deepen their emotional awareness

  • repair after betrayal or disconnect

  • learn to love with openness and authenticity

  • have support on sexual dysfunction (ED, vaginismus, delayed ejaculation, etc)

  • learn about postpartum sex and sex during pregnancy

  • understand relationship dynamics (polyamory, open-relationships)

It is also for couples who want to:
feel desire again
rebuild trust
understand each other’s emotional needs
reignite their erotic connection
argue less, love more, and communicate honestly

If you are seeking a space that is safe, honest, powerful, and deeply human — welcome home.

My Training

I am a trained sex, relationship, and intimacy coach, grounded in one of the world’s leading methodologies for emotional and erotic healing.

My approach blends the depth of the Somatica Method with:

  • Attachment theory

  • Nervous system awareness

  • Embodied mindfulness

  • Erotic self-development

  • Shame deconditioning

  • Trauma-informed relational practices

  • Real-time emotional attunement

The Somatica approach is experiential, embodied, and deeply human — and it shapes the way I hold space for your healing, your sensuality, and your emotional truth.

But beyond formal training, the most powerful part of my work comes from lived experience, embodiment, and the devotion I bring to your transformation.

What It’s Like to Work With Me

Clients describe my sessions as:

  • “liberating”

  • “safe yet boldly honest”

  • “sensual without being sexualized”

  • “a place where I finally breathe”

  • “like talking to someone who sees my soul”

I bring a balance of:
boldness
softness
emotional clarity
zero judgement
real talk
and sensual presence

Together, we create a space where you can expand, express, feel, unravel, and rebuild — at your own pace.

A Personal Note From Me

I am not here to fix you.
You are not broken.

I am here to walk with you as you uncover the truth of who you are —
in your body, your heart, and your desire.

You deserve intimacy that feels safe.
You deserve pleasure that feels alive.
You deserve a love story that includes YOU.

Let’s create that together.

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