Awaken Your Intimacy. Deepen Your Connection. Transform Your Relationships.
Workshops & Retreats
In-person workshops and overseas retreats designed to help you heal, grow, and reignite passion — safely, sensually, and authentically..
Why Workshops?
Intimacy is a skill.
Connection is a practice.
Desire is a language your body remembers when it feels safe enough to speak.
Ashburn Intimacy workshops are immersive, experiential, and deeply human spaces where you can:
break old patterns
expand your emotional awareness
learn the art of communication
explore desire without shame
rebuild trust and confidence
reconnect with your sensual self
These workshops are in-person only — because intimacy is best felt in presence, breath, and real-time energy.
Upcoming workshops
Awaken your sensual body, reclaim desire, and rebuild your relationship with your pleasure.
A space for women to explore embodiment, erotic identity, confidence, and emotional freedom.
You’ll learn:
Pleasure mapping
Body awareness + sensual embodiment
Releasing shame around desire
Asking for what you want
For men ready to deepen emotional connection, vulnerability, and relational strength.
This workshop focuses on presence, communication, and the foundation of real intimacy.
You’ll learn:
Emotional attunement
Understanding your partner’s needs
Leading with integrity and softness
Healthy communication
Turn conflict into connection and learn the emotional language of healthy intimacy.
You’ll learn:
Attunement in conversations
Conflict de-escalation
Expressing needs without fear
Repairing after rupture
Understand your attachment style and transform your patterns in love and intimacy.
You’ll explore:
Attachment dynamics
Emotional triggers
Earned security
Healthy relational habits
For individuals or couples wanting to deepen emotional closeness, trust, and safety.
You’ll explore:
Emotional intimacy
Nervous system grounding
Authentic expression
Building safe connection
Release the shame that keeps you disconnected from your body, your truth, and your pleasure.
A transformational workshop rooted in compassion, embodiment, and emotional expression.
You’ll explore:
Shame triggers
Body-based release
Self-compassion practices
Reclaiming your erotic identity
OverSEAS RetreatS
Upcoming Retreat
Designed for couples who want to rebuild connection, emotional intimacy, communication, and desire.
You’ll experience:
Couples communication breakthroughs
Desire reignition practices
Attachment repair
Trust rebuilding
Sensual mapping sessions
Guided partner rituals
MEET YOUR INSTRUCTOR
Dee Ashburn
Sex, Intimacy and Relationship Coach
Coach Dee Ashburn is a Sex, Intimacy and Relationship Coach and the founder of Ashburn Intimacy. Her work centers on helping individuals and couples reconnect with themselves and each other in ways that feel authentic, embodied, and emotionally safe.
Trained through the Somatica Institute, Dee’s approach blends somatic awareness, relational coaching, and honest dialogue to help people explore intimacy, communication, desire, and emotional patterns with greater clarity and confidence. She is known for creating spaces where difficult conversations can happen with compassion, curiosity, and a refreshing sense of openness.
Through her workshops and retreats, Dee guides participants beyond theory and into lived experience. Her facilitation style is warm, grounded, and deeply attuned, allowing people to explore connection, vulnerability, and personal growth in a supportive environment.
Whether participants come seeking deeper intimacy, healing from past relationship patterns, or simply a more fulfilling connection with themselves and their partners, Dee’s work invites them into meaningful exploration and lasting transformation.